by Christa Gala | Oct 28, 2015 | Buzz, November 2015
As much as I hate to do math, let’s do a little. If you shop local, more than 51 cents of every dollar stays in Raleigh, compared with 13 cents if you buy at a chain.
Nationally, we each spend close to $800 on gifts and food during the holidays, according to the National Retail Federation. So if I spent, let’s say, $600 in Raleigh this holiday season, more than $300 would stay here. If I spent it at a chain, only $78 would stay here.
Whaaat?
Jennifer Martin wants to show Raleigh the money. The money we’re giving away.
It’s Martin’s job to think about such things as the executive director for Shop Local Raleigh, formed in 2009, the brainchild of the Greater Raleigh Merchants Association. Membership has grown from 100 members to more than 500.
It’s all about distribution. If you buy from a chain, there are a lot of people who get a cut of your coin, including the CEO and a bunch of guys in the middle.
“Within the local community, the money goes to just one or two owners, maybe a few employees and then they’re usually renting space from a local place,” says Martin.
We all have to buy at the national stores for some things, though—like laundry detergent and Triscuits—and Martin gets that.
“We know it’s really hard to do everything all at once, but if each month we each shift just 10 percent, we’d add billions of dollars in tax revenue to our community each year,” she says. “Maybe it’s that cup of coffee every day or when you’re going out to dinner.”
Or buying gifts.
If you’ve ever wondered why the Raleigh Christmas Parade kicks off so early, it’s so independent businesses can kick off the holiday season. You rarely see chains in that parade, but you see a lot of locals, investing time and money in floats and freebies. Throughout the year, they donate to charities and schools with giveaways, their spaces and often their time.
They don’t just work here; they live here.
You can’t say the same for the big-box CEO and all those middlemen.
$20 on the 20th Means Big Savings and Local Rewards
Encourages shoppers to take $20 and spend it with a local merchant rather than a big box chain. Visit shoplocalraleigh.org/care-2/20-on-the-20th for a list of SLR merchants offering extra savings on the 20th of the month when you mention Shop Local Raleigh.
by Christa Gala | Oct 28, 2015 | Buzz, November 2015
Every time I teach my class at UNC-Chapel Hill, I lock the doors once my students are seated. I didn’t do that two years ago. But the sad reality is that mass shootings are commonplace.
And every time another shooting occurs, the gun control demands are loud. But for me, they ring hollow.
As someone who has an odd passion for watching the media, I just have to ask:
Why aren’t we looking at the actual motivation that makes a person pick up a gun and start shooting in the first place? What is it?
Without exception, every single shooter has struggled with mental illness. We’re even starting to develop a profile. Typically it’s a young male in his late teens, 20s or 30s (when serious mental illnesses peak), struggling for years with little to no intervention, which results in isolation, frustration and a trajectory that leads to violence.
CBS is airing a new segment “Voices Against Violence” that explores the issues behind mass shootings. I’m not saying our gun control laws couldn’t use some cleaning up, but former congressman Patrick Kennedy, who’s lost two uncles to gun violence (one president and one senator), said this:
“We ought to wrap our arms around the people suffering from these illnesses and treat them early as opposed to ignoring them until they become pathological stage four illnesses…”
The U.S. is sorely lacking in providing safety nets and resources for the mentally ill. And each city plays a part in that role, including ours. We closed Dix. It’s wonderful we’ll get a nice new park, but where do our mentally ill go?
They end up in prisons, in the ERs and on the streets without any treatment–ticking time bombs for whatever comes next. To be clear, the vast majority of those struggling with mental illness never turn violent, but there is a small percentage that does. Small—and deadly.
Providing resources for the mentally ill won’t be cheap. Honestly, wrestling with the NRA over gun legislation would be easier. But if we do it, we have a real shot at changing the trajectory.
It was actually Zak Williams, the son of the legendary comic Robin Williams, who got me thinking about this. He came to Raleigh in September for a Foundation of Hope fundraiser at the Angus Barn (see page 14). Robin Williams struggled with mental illness and took his own life in 2014.
Zak Williams had a good idea. He thought high schools and colleges throughout the nation could play a crucial role in providing resources to those struggling in this age group. Those identified with serious illnesses could receive more comprehensive counseling, medication and courses of treatment.
It makes sense. Almost every professor I’ve worked with has had a student drop out due to mental illness, attempt suicide or stop attending for weeks at a time.
It’s such a tough age—the late teens to early 20s. There’s a lot of pressure, responsibility and uncertainty, which often exacerbate emerging genetic issues.
I asked our intern from NC State, Annie Grant, to write down her thoughts about the subject (see box).
For many, these years are a relatively small hurdle, but for some, there’s something bigger going on.
As a university instructor, I would love to get a conversation going. Email me your ideas at [email protected].
Close to home
Cary Police arrested and charged a 17-year-old Panther Creek High School student with communicating threats that included sending texts to classmates threatening gun violence.
The student said he had a “hit list” and certain students were on it. Police searched the home and found no indication such a list existed. According to reports, he told police he’d been depressed and felt it was “him against the world.”
When the best years aren’t
There have been 17 shootings on college campuses this year. The most recent at Oregon’s Umpqua Community College left 9 dead.
I try not to think about something like that happening on my campus. But the truth is that college is a stressful place. I’ve been at N.C. State for two years and I’ve enjoyed it, but at times it’s completely overwhelming. I know how hard it can be so I wonder how some students are really doing.
When these things happen, it makes me think about those with mental health disorders who aren’t receiving the help they need. I know they’re out there, especially on college campuses, but they’re held back by the stigma surrounding mental health problems and the expectation that college students should be having fun, not struggling.
There is pressure on college students to have the best years of their lives, but what happens when college is more difficult and unsettling than exciting? Usually nothing. Usually no one will talk about it or dare admit that college isn’t living up to the expectations set by others. Because when it isn’t fun, it feels like a personal failure.
We ignore it, but the stigma regarding mental health keeps college students from seeking the help they need. If we want to combat this stigma and see a change, let’s extend understanding toward struggling college students and encourage them that seeking help shows their strength, not their weakness.
Annie Grant is a sophomore at NC State from Greensboro.
by Christa Gala | Oct 28, 2015 | Eat, November 2015
From cutting-edge cocktail bars to 30-year-old dives (and even a secret speakeasy!), Raleigh touts hundreds of spots to tip one back—including some of the best craft breweries in the country. More than 500 readers weighed in, and we downed a few pints ourselves exploring the city’s Top 50 bars. See if you agree.
Overall Top 5 Bars
The Architect Bar & Social House
This space, originally built in 1922, was brought back to life, revealing hidden windows, wood floors and exposed brick. But the real find here is The Green Light—the bar within the bar—hidden behind a typical bookcase. If the “green light” is on, this gem is open, a cozy spot with a speakeasy vibe, featuring specialty cocktails by candlelight. Architectbar.com, 108 E. Hargett St., 919-833-4949.
Person Street Bar
We love the jukebox and neon lights behind the bar, which give this place a cool, yet hipster feel. Somehow it all works so well with the natural wood on the ceiling and leather barstools. Chic meets rustic; who knew? There’s also an outdoor patio with tons of seating and a game room in back with pool and arcade games. No food served so membership is required: $5 at the door. Person-street.com, 805 N. Person St., 919-977-5952.
Player’s Retreat
PR has been pouring pints for nearly 65 years—for college students and tenured professors and everybody in between (though it helps if you’re a Wolfpack). It serves a mean burger and, in October, former Coquette chef Beth Littlejohn began preparing fine dining dishes Thursday through Sunday (whaaaat?). theplayersretreat.net, 105 Oberlin Road, 919-755-9589.
Landmark Tavern
It’s all about the bartenders here (our favorite is Gary) who remember your name and will create something just for you. A good selection of beers on tap and the general round-up of liquor, not to mention plenty of seating and an outdoor patio open year round. The last call you’ll hear here is “Bartender, make me a drink!” 117 E. Hargett, 919-821-9865.
Raleigh Times
As the former home of the newspaper of the same name, you’ve got a 100-year-old building and some really unique beer selections. Cool history blends with a rooftop deck and legendary Fried Pickles. It’s been a good combo since 2006. Raleightimesbar.com, 14 E. Hargett St., 919-833-0999.
6 Best Craft Beer Bars
Clouds Brewing
One of the only “downpours” in the state (other than Asheville). Start a tab and pour your own before committing. Techies will like using RFID technology to track what they’re pouring. Cloudsbrewing.com, 126 N. West St., 919-307-8335.
Raleigh Beer Garden
Just open this year, there are more taps here than anywhere in the world. Literally. RBG claimed a title in the Guinness Book of World Records (366 taps) to prove it. Great three-story venue in Glenwood South (and a cool big-screen digital beer menu), but be prepared to deal with crowds; no reservations accepted Fridays through Sundays. Theraleighbeergarden.com, 614 Glenwood Ave., 919-324-3415.
Tyler’s Taproom
A fully loaded outside bar, good seating and great views, not to mention 80 taps, keep folks coming back. Tylerstaproom.com, 18 Seaboard Ave.,
919-322-0906.
Flying Saucer
Put a plate on the wall—if you can. You only have to taste 200 beers to get your own brass plate, but 50 tastes earn a free pint. It’s a fun atmosphere, expansive both inside and out. Your UFO membership will earn perks too. Beerknurd.com., 328 Morgan St., 919-821-7401.
Yard House
Located in North Hills, this hip after-work spot (or late-night) caters to professionals, featuring two Happy Hours—one from 3-6 p.m. and one from 10-close. “Chalkboard” specials are popular but may rotate quickly in the same day. Some good food offerings here, especially late-night; try the $5 Vampire Taco or the $6 Ham and Pineapple Pizza. Yardhouse.com, 4208 Six Forks Road, 919-881-2590.
Bottle Revolution
Grab a single from the cooler and enjoy the outdoor patio with plenty of seating—or the indoor area with none (but lots of lean-tos). Ten taps on draft. Now two locations in Raleigh. Bottlerevolution.com, 4025 Lake Boone Trail and 7713 Lead Mine Road; 919-885-4677 and 919-526-7262, respectively.
6 Best Game Day Bars
Carolina Ale House
A new rooftop bar (with inside and outside seating) offers a a glass roof and a view of downtown Raleigh. Family-friendly, you’ll find kids’ specials on burgers and craft beer specials for the grown-ups. Carolinaalehouse.com, 500 Glenwood Ave., 919-835-2222.
Brickhouse
A popular NC State game-watching spot, usually packed with college students and loaded with TVs is tucked behind Ben & Jerry’s across from Meredith College in the old Playmakers spot. Brickhouse-nc.com, 3801 Hillsborough St., 919-829-3666.
Tobacco Road Sports Cafe
Soon to move to the old Natty Greene’s location, Tobacco Road tries to elevate its food, including orrechiette pasta, shrimp and grits and mussels steamed in penny beer. For panoramic game viewing, snag the high-top tables. tobaccoroadsportscafe.com, 222 Glenwood Ave., 919-832-3688.
Lynnwood Grill
A neighborhood bar for those living around Lake Lynn and Glenwood; lounging recliners and a rooftop bar attract bar-goers from all over the city. Get there early for the best seat with over 30 TVs. Lynnwoodgrill.com, 4821 Grove Barton Road, 919-785-0043.
Village Draft House
When you want to watch the game but have the family in tow (for better or worse), the left side features bar seating (with the best views of the game), and the right offers tables and booths. At least 100 beers on tap here (40 from N.C.). Villagedrafthouse.com, 428 Daniels St., Cameron Village, 919-833-1373.
Pickled Onion
Lots of regulars here, typically in their mid-40s and 50s. TVs are everywhere (like some places would hang artwork), so you can see the game no matter where you land. It’s not unusual for the owners to pull up a stool. Thepickledonion.com, 7901 Falls of Neuse Road, 919-848-4161.
5 Best Music Bars
Pour House
A Raleigh mainstay, equal parts grunge, dust and live rock bands (daily), you’ll find a good collection of alternative rock from local bands. Thepourhousemusichall.com, 224 Blount St., 919-821-1120.
C Grace
Velvet sofas, crystal chandeliers and low (really low) lights make this feel like a 1920s New Orleans Jazz lounge. You might find a full stage of jazz musicians on the horns or a lone singer on the piano. Cgracebar.com, 407 Glenwood Ave., 919-899-3675.
Coglin’s Raleigh
Totally 80s and 90s dance music. Like, totally. Fridays and Saturdays are packed and the dance floor stays that way most nights, but the music selection and scene is hitting a nerve in Raleigh. Stay for the midnight slow dance to feel like you’re back at your high school prom. Coglins.com, 226 Fayetteville St., 919-794-7304.
Lincoln Theater
The worst seat in the house is still a good seat to see a variety of live bands—from national acts to local bands on the rise. The Lincoln is large enough to accommodate a good crowd but small enough to feel like “we’re all in this together.” Two bars, one on each level. You might snag a stool on the upper level, but otherwise you’ll be standing. Lincolntheatre.com, 126 E. Cabarrus St., 919-821-4111.
Tir na Nog
You’ll find a big variety here—from local bands to bagpipes and traditional Irish dancing (Friday nights) and Irish jam sessions on Sundays. And sometime it’s just a DJ. But most find it all goes well with a Guinness and traditional Irish fare like Cottage Pie or a menu staple like Beer Can Chicken. Tnnirishpub.com, 218 S. Blount St., 919-833-7795.
4 Best LGBT Bars
Borough
Loud and crazy on the weekends, quiet and quaint during the week. Grab dinner (there are some great vegan and vegetarian options) and drinks, including a few creative cocktails. Theboroughraleigh.com, 317 W. Morgan St., 919-832-8433.
Legends
There’s a cover charge and sometimes it can be tough to find a parking spot, but Raleigh’s oldest established gay and lesbian bar rarely disappoints with its dance floor, ever-evolving drag shows and newly done outdoor patios. Legends-club.com, 330 W. Hargett St., 919-831-8888.
Flex Nightclub
A dive gay bar with cheap beer ($3 for most, cash only) and free karaoke on Sundays—very laid-back and unpretentious. Check out the Trailer Park Trash drag show on Thursdays at least once. Flex-club.com, 2 S. West St., 919-832-8855.
Fifteen
Used to be the Warhol. The scene starts out a little slow but ends up loud and crowded; live DJs Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights and also a grand piano for shows. Fifteenraleigh.com, 317 W. Morgan St., 919-615-2758.
4 Best Wine Bars
Wine Feed
Owned by two guys named Phillip who know their wine and present it in a clean, modern environment that’s not overdone. Take their advice, but we like a certain Moscato you might want to ask about. Thewinefeed.com, 602 Glenwood Ave., 919-374-0036.
Vinos Finos
Featuring one of the biggest selections of South American wine in Raleigh, often joining forces with live jazz or food pairings, including Argentine empanadas and tapas. Vinosfinosypicadas.com, 8540 Honeycutt Road, 919-747-9233.
Mosaic Wine Bar
Wine tastings, ethnic dance nights and, yeah, hookahs, all accompanied by trains passing in the distance, which make you feel like an extra in an indie movie. Mosaicwinelounge.com, 517 W. Jones St., 919-829-5886.
Ridgewood Wine & Beer Co.
Relaxed and casual, with a few beer taps for the non-wine drinkers, enjoy a great selection and a wide range of prices, including some very affordable. The complimentary Saturday afternoon wine tasting (4 to 6 p.m.) is always a good idea. Ridgewoodwineandbeer.com, 1214 Ridge Road, 919-832-5232.
5 Best Food Bars
Trophy Brewing
Get your elbows out; this place is usually crazy crowded. You’ll fight for a parking space, wait for a table. Totally worth it. Order a growler from this nano-brewery, and then order one of Trophy’s phenomenal pies. The Brooklyn White is our favorite. Delish. Trophybrewing.com, 827 W. Morgan St., 919-803-4849.
Hibernian
Traditional Irish fare like Corned Beef & Cabbage, Fish and Chips and Shepherd’s Pie in a dark-paneled pub that feels right out of Dublin. Hibernianpub.com, Two locations: 311 Glenwood St. and 8021 Falls of Neuse Road, 919-833-2258 and 919-803-0290, respectively.
Busy Bee
Famous for its Sunday Beer Brunch, pairing brunch classics with flavorful brews. Other must haves: the loaded tater tots and fried green tomatoes. Busybeeraleigh.com, 225 S. Wilmington St., 919-424-7817.
Sawmill Tap Room
The burgers and pickle chips get high marks, but we especially love The Brueben, a brat covered in corned beef, swiss, sauerkraut and spicy mustard on a pretzel roll. Sawmilltaproom.com, 7701 Lead Mine Road, 919-845-7889.
The Oxford
A late night menu that’s not Waffle House. Forget the smothered and covered hashbrowns, try the $5 Spiced Boiled Peanuts, homemade pimento cheese or Sloppy Joe Sliders. The regular menu offers everything from Pork Belly Sliders to Quail Eggs. A unique spin on English pub grub. Oxfordraleigh.com, 319 Fayetteville St., 919-832-6622.
5 Best Whiskey/Lounge
Angus Barn
The Wild Turkey Lounge: Dark wood paneling, leather club chairs and a gun collection present the largest private collection of whiskeys in the world (at least that’s the rumor). A collection of more than 600 decanters will give you something to talk about. Angusbarn.com/wlounge.htm,
9401 Glenwood Ave., 919-781-2444.
Foundation
Head down the stairs to a spot that holds just about 50 people and feels a little like your uncle’s basement—in a good way. If you don’t know anyone, you will soon; the long wooden tables encourage mingling. Easygoing and low key. Foundationnc.com, 213 Fayetteville St.,
919-896-6016.
Fox’s Liquor Bar
More upscale than Foundation, nicer dress is expected and the atmosphere here is more buttoned up. Servers take orders from one of several conversation areas, with bartenders chipping ice from a block the old fashioned way. ac-restaurants.com/fox/
Midtown Grille
A great place for bartender confessions or advice, the staff here tops you off with a smile while imparting some impressive knowledge about different whiskeys and bourbons. Themidtowngrille.com, 4421 Six Forks Road, 919-782-9463.
Margaux’s
Lauded largely for inventive American and European cuisine, Margaux’s is a staple on the cocktail scene; it’s selection of whiskeys and bourbons doesn’t disappoint. Margauxsrestaurant.com, 8110 Creedmoor Road, 919-846-9846.
4 Best Dive Bars
Slim’s Downtown Distillery
Reminiscent of a 90s bar; check out some garage rock, and if you like the beer before the Craft Era, it’s a great place to go for Miller Highlife, Budweiser and PBR. Bands hoping for a chance to gain traction grab the stage at Slim’s, which holds just about 100 people so you’ll always be pretty close to the stage. Pool upstairs and a patio out back. Slimsraleigh.com, 227 S. Wilmington St., 919-833-6657.
The Goat
Go on Sunday nights when it’s “Bartender’s Choice.” You could end up with a Summer Ale in November or a dented Pabst Blue Ribbon that rolled to the back of the cooler; all are just a buck. There are dollar bills lining the ceiling, too, so if you’re short on cash… 5111 Western Blvd, 919-233-4143.
Black Flower Bar
Not only does it look like a garage sale, the staff has totally adopted the same attitude. They are abrupt, salty, almost rude—which totally goes with the whole vibe. You won’t find a more divey dive in Raleigh. Blackflowerbar.com, 517 W. Peace St., 919-900-0147.
Deep South
Throw a rock and you’ll hit the Red Hat Amphitheater. You’ll be surprised to find a great variety of live music. Big names pop in occasionally and many, like Joan Jett, have signed posters or scrawled song lyrics on the red walls. Not a lot of food options here, just chips and salsa or sandwich delivery. Deepsouththebar.com, 430 S. Dawson St. 919-833-1255.
6 Best Suburb Bars
Pharmacy Bottle
It’s about time a place like this came to Cary. Located downtown and fairly new, Pharmacy Bottle has a good selection of beers (and wines and ciders), including Uinta and Founders as well as Fullsteam’s Igor. Pet-friendly and you can bring outside food IN. A rare find indeed. Pharmacybottlebeverage.com, 120 E. Chatham St., Cary, 919-234-1098.
Ruckus Pizza
It’s not often you find a bar serving pizza and sushi (try the Shark Bites), but Ruckus Pizza in Morrisville does it well. Combine that with a good all-around drink selection and trivia nights, and this neighborhood watering hole hits the spot. Ruckuspizza.com, 1101 Market Center Dr., Morrisville, 919-388-3500.
World of Beer
Normally we wouldn’t rank a chain in this spot, but this sports bar does a good job with its beer selection—offering NC craft beers and as well as a variety from microbreweries across the nation. Worldofbeer.com, 2036 Renaissance Park Place, Cary, 919-234-0088
My Way Tavern
The “go-to” spot in Holly Springs. It’s laid-back, and you’re fine to go grubby, but you’ll likely see someone you know (fair warning). It’s loud, with a fair amount of brews on tap, most from N.C. The horseshoe bar, made with reclaimed wood, sets the stage and gets folks talking. Mywaytavern.com, 301 Center St., Holly Springs, 919-285-2412.
Bass Lake Draft House
More taps here—34—and a big following on game day. Eats are good, with lunch specials under $7. We recommend the Vineyard Chicken Salad. Basslakedrafthouse.com, 124 Bass Lake Road, Holly Springs, 919-567-3251.
Doherty’s Irish Pub
Owner Michael Doherty, born in Ireland, is often barside, pouring pints and serving up Fish & Chips or brisket sliders. Lots of regulars in this pub with a clean and simple design. Dohertysirishpubnc.com, 5490 Apex Peakway, Apex, 919-387-4100.
Local Breweries
Although they only sell their own brews, we just had to include a few of Raleigh’s innovative craft breweries.
Raleigh Brewing
There’s always a good group milling about playing trivia or partaking in one of the regular food trucks (no food served here, fyi).You’ll find a crowd of mixed ages playing board games or cornhole and sipping tasty brews; we like the Blatherskite Scottish Ale paired with Monopoly. Raleighbrewingcompany.com, 3709 Neil St., 919-400-9086.
Crank Arm 
It’s all about bikes (the pedal kind) and beer. Check out board games, Jenga and a cool slot-machine-like sculpture made with bike parts. Seating out front and an open concept inside. Crankarmbrewing.com, 319 W. Davie St., 919-324-3529.
Lone Rider
A warehouse with exposed brick and picnic tables creates a relaxed vibe, and the lack of TVs encourages conversation. Food trucks make frequent appearances. Our faves are Shotgun Betty and Sweet Josie. loneriderbeer.com, 8816 Gulf Ct. (919) 442-8004.
Nickelpoint
Located in Five Points, brewing European beers as well as small batches; dogs allowed outside, activities like darts and cornhole. Nickelpointbrewing.com, 506 Pershing Road, 919-916-5961.
“Someone contacted me about hosting it at my studio,” says owner Christy Curtis-Kopcsak. “They wanted to do a workshop and an outreach for kids who wanted to be in the business. One of the assistant choreographers came in to teach ‘Rhythm Nation.’ A lot of kids took the class, and he asked 10 to stay after.”