12 Things to Do in Raleigh This Week, Jan. 12–18

12 Things to Do in Raleigh This Week, Jan. 12–18

Through 1/22
A Modern Vision: European Masterworks from The Phillips Collection

Let’s get it arted in here… ICYMI, 50 paintings by renowned artists like Edgar Degas, Vincent van Gogh, Edouard Manet, Claude Monet, Pablo Picasso and Paul Cézanne are on display at the NCMA. ncartmuseum.org

1/12
Hammered Trivia

Exercise your brain power by rolling up to Raleigh Brewing for eight rounds of trivia. Rounds of drinks ordered TBD. raleighbrewing.com

1/13
The Steel Wheels

Jam out to this “tasty blend of roots, bluegrass and Americana down to Raleigh,” at the AJ Fletcher Opera Theater as part of the PineCone Down Home Concert Series. pinecone.org

1/13
Triangle Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday Kickoff Event

Have a dream? Then join local leaders and community members for a ceremony kicking off MLK weekend honoring Dr. King and signifying solidarity with a wreath-laying beside his statue. trianglemlk.com

1/13–15
Micheal Blaustein

If you’re into Inside Jokes, grab a seat at Goodnights to hang with comedian, actor and writer Micheal Blaustein of Up There, Person of Interest and Punk’d fame. goodnightscomedy.com

1/14
Cocktails & Cuisine Class

New year, new cocktail game. Level up your drink-making skills via The Willard’s cocktails and cuisine class—this one with a special focus on wintry chai tea concepts. … Ready to give it a chai?! thewillardraleigh.com

1/14
DJ Ice Night

Party like it’s 1999 (even though it’ll be 2023!) with DJ Matt’s mix of ’90s tunes—think a mix of Biggie, Ace of Base, TLC and The Spice Girls, to name just a few. And if you’re feeling really nostalgic, don your fave oldies fit. We love a #throwback! fentonnc.com

1/14 
NC State v. Miami

And we’ll rock you like a hurricane. #PackedHouse gopack.com 

1/15
George Lopez

Ay guey! Treasured actor and standup comedian George Lopez is taking the stage at DECPA during his OMG! Hi! Comedy Tour to school Raleighites on “the Lopez way.” Wapa! dukeenergycenterraleigh.com

1/15
Mozart and His Contemporaries

Compose an amazing evening at this orchestra event feat. “the forgotten talents that brushed shoulders with music’s ultimate genius.” It’s sure to hit all the right notes. chamberorchestraofthetriangle.org

1/17
Mocktail Class

Whether you’re going dry for January or stayin’ sober all year long, shake up your Tuesday night via this marvelous mocktail class at Killjoy. Cheers! killjoycocktail.com

1/18, monthly
Trivia Night at Brookside Bodega

Don your thinking caps and grab your dream team for a totally rad night of trivia at the Bodega. brooksidebodega.com

Sober Curious & Social

Sober Curious & Social

Zero Proof is building a community for Raleighites who want to drink less or ditch alcohol altogether.

Jacqueline Lee feared that if she quit drinking, her social life would end. “I have always been very social,” says Lee. “I love parties and getting to meet new people, but all of those events usually revolve around drinking or meeting at a bar.”

At 25, Lee didn’t know many people who were sober. Searching online, she couldn’t find a Raleigh community built around alcohol-free experiences outside of recovery and treatment programs. So she created one.

Launched in 2020, Zero Proof has already offered a staggering buffet of sober events, ranging from aerial yoga to drag shows. Hourlong hikes at Umstead also have proven popular. But she has also organized a series of alcohol-free concerts, dinners and even an outing at Boxcar Bar + Arcade.

“For years, I didn’t stop drinking because I didn’t know anyone my age who was sober,” says Lee. “When you stop drinking, it can feel really lonely, so anything I can do to provide an avenue for people to connect with other people who are experiencing the same thing is really worthwhile to me.”

Mocktails may be easier to find here recently, but Raleigh falls behind peer cities. Lee quickly discovered Charlotte’s alcohol-free Counterculture Club, while Austin brags the nonalcoholic Sans Bar. Lee may have initially felt like an outcast for ditching alcohol, but her efforts are actually making Raleigh more inclusive and current.

Zero Proof typically hosts three to four events each month, and the schedule is heavily influenced by participants. Some local businesses like Current Wellness are eager to partner with her, but it’s not always an easy sell. “It’s challenging when you’re trying to plan alcohol-free events because a lot of businesses don’t want to do it on Friday or Saturday since alcohol is such a revenue driver,” says Lee. But the Zero Proof trailblazer—whose main hustle is at a marketing firm—hasn’t let that stop her.

Zero Proof isn’t a support group, at least not in the classic sense. Instead, it attracts a wide net, including those who are sober curious or want to drink less. Most attendees are in their 20s or 30s. And that’s partially intentional; Zero Proof is open to all—but Lee, now 27, hopes to create a social community for young people like her that normalizes not drinking. 

“I have countless new friends who are also sober,” Lee writes on Zero Proof’s website, “which makes me not feel so alone in a culture where alcohol is everywhere”—proof positive that Zero Proof’s spirited social options are filling a void for the spirit-free community. zeroproofraleigh.com

Jacqueline Lee; founder of Zero Proof