How to Spend a Weekend in Durham

How to Spend a Weekend in Durham

What to do and where to eat, drink and stay in Bull City

Raleigh’s sister city has got character—that’s a sure thing. Historic meets modern within the “cool, cultured and innovative” walkable municipality where its once-thriving tobacco industry is still very apparent among converted warehouses and brick-laden streets, now home to sought-after apartments, restaurants, bars, coffee shops, boutiques and more.

Brimming with inspiring spaces—not to mention parks, attractions, and a diverse arts and culture scene Durham is ideal for a day trip (pro tip: Take the train!) or overnight stay to take full advantage of its spirit(s) and fine hotels for a comforting home-away-from-home experience. So while you can’t do it all in Durham in just one day—or even weekend—luckily, there’s no reason you can’t go back time and time again. Here’s where to start.

DO

DPAC
Raise the curtain on an entertaining night out via a slew of diverse performances at the largest performing arts center in the Carolinas. Upcoming shows this month include & Juliet, The Black Crowes, Charlie Wilson and Iliza Shlesinger—to name just a few—pleasing music and culture fans alike. dpacnc.com

MISSY LANE’S ASSEMBLY ROOM
Ya like jazz? You’ll love getting down at this minority-owned live jazz club. The roster of live events keeps the party going on almost a nightly basis, whether it’s funk, hip-hop or soul artists—or album release parties, BYO vinyl nights and more. By day, grind away in the front room with a coffee and grab-and-go food. missylanes.com

Missy Lanes Assembly Room
Photo by Chris Charles Photography

BRIGHTLEAF SQUARE
Where Bull City’s storied roots and trailblazing future meet is a redeveloped square lined with shops, eateries, breweries and bars. Stroll the charming brick walkways and pop into the likes of Fonda Lupita; home goods store Indio; Rose’s Noodles, Dumplings & Sweets; Giorgios Bakatsias’ Greek restaurant Nikos; and much more. brightleafdurham.com

EAT

GUGLHUPF
Prost! A staple since 1998, this popular all-day bakery and restaurant is consistently crowded—and for good reason. An ode to its German roots, the bakery uses traditional European baking methods to produce an ever-rotating selection of baked goods, while the restaurant serves up contemporary southwestern German fare. P.S. The spacious garden patio is the place to be. guglhupf.com

Guglhupf
Photo by Graham White

SERAPHINE
NOLA fare gets a classy upgrade at brothers Brad and Graham Weddington’s Louisiana-inspired restaurant and bar in the American Tobacco Campus. Boasting a chic interior and pristine patio, the sultry spot specializes in traditional dishes like oysters, gumbo, peel-and-eat shrimp, and boudin sausage, which should absolutely be paired with a house cocktail—and an oyster shooter for the brave. Laissez les bons temps rouler! seraphinedurham.com

M TEMPURA
They say everything tastes better fried, and at this popular M Restaurants outpost helmed by Top Chef finalist Savannah Miller, it’s no exception. Tempura—aka lightly battered and deep-fried seafood/vegetables—is, naturally, the name of the game here, with three tasting experiences on offer to snack through. To really immerse yourself, snag a seat at the “bar” and opt for the Kaiseki feat. the likes of shrimp toast, blue crab, crudo and sashimi. m-restaurants.com

M Tempura
Photo courtesy of M Tempura

DRINK

THE VELVET HIPPO
Sit and stay awhile at this sun-soaked rooftop lounge founded by five women and named after pit bull type dogs—aka velvet hippos. With its whimsical yet elevated ambiance, complete with an indoor/outdoor bar, greenery and string lights, there’s never not an excuse to kick back for a bevy (and obv your barker is invited)—not to mention events like music trivia bingo, dance parties and Latin night upping the fun factor. velvethippodurham.com

CORPSE REVIVER
Durham Distillery’s cocktail bar is a vibe—period. Like a lounge you’d find Gatsby sipping in, the gorgeous space features design elements similar to its liquor bottles, ample booths and velvet chairs to cozy up in, plus a patio answering your fall musings. The signature Corpse Reviver No. 2 is an obvious cocktail choice, but you can’t go wrong with any of the martinis and other bevs feat. the distillery’s award-winning gins. durhamdistillery.com

Corpse Reviver
Photo courtesy of Corpse Reviver

THE ACCORDION CLUB
If a laid-back hang is what you’re in search of, look no further. The pitch-perfect dive is everything you could ever want in a neighborhood watering hole: cheap drinks, friendly yet sassy bartenders, pool, darts and hot dogs (just because). And if the moody atmosphere gets to be too much, you can always escape to the back patio for some sun and fresh air. Talk about the best of both worlds. @accordionclub

STAY

THE DURHAM HOTEL
This midcentury-mod hotel offers the best of all worlds, whether you’re a slow traveler looking to take advantage of the Raleigh Denim blankets and fresh Counter Culture Coffee delivered each morning, or are all about exploring the on-site restaurant and rooftop bar before gallivanting to nearby hot spots like Alley Twenty Six, Carolina Theatre and Mateo. Think of it as a choose-your-own adventure. thedurham.com

The Durham Hotel
Photo by Travis Dove

21C MUSEUM HOTEL
Art museum meet hotel. Downtown Durham’s boutique stay is nothing short of extraordinary, what with its 10,500-square-foot exhibition space, rejuvenating spa and innovative restaurant/bar Counting House. But with the reimagined historic Hill Building’s art deco decor and preserved elements—don’t miss an opp to lounge in the original bank vault—you’re in for a stimulating stay no matter what. 21cmuseumhotels.com

UNSCRIPTED DURHAM
Going with the flow is the name of the game here. The former home of the iconic circa-1960s Jack Tar Hotel boasts a contemporary colorful design and vibrant energy—especially at the destination-worthy lively outdoor rooftop. The poolside paradise offers tropicalesque cocktails and bites while playing host to a constant lineup of events, from DJ-fueled parties to free yoga. unscriptedhotels.com

Unscripted Durham
Photo courtesy of Unscripted Durham
Five Outside

Five Outside

Where to eat, play and sway outside Raleigh in October

1. QueenBurger
DURHAM
Calling all (burger) kings and queens! This oh-so-meaty all-the-rage joint from the team behind Kingfisher and Queeny’s that cooked up as a pandemic parking lot pop-up has finally opened its brick-and-mortar at Durham’s American Tobacco Campus—and, well, you burger believe the drive is worth it. The casual yet bangin’ double-patty smashed grass-fed beef and handmade veggie and vegan burgs (the signature topped with griddled onions, NC hoop cheddar cheese, special sauce and pickles) will make you feel like royalty (and royally satiated!)—and the fresh cocktails, wine and draft beer are perf for washing it all down. We can’t wait to get smashing outside Raleigh. eatqueenburger.com 

outside Raleigh

2. Osteria G
APEX
Named after an Italian osteria—aka an establishment serving a simple wine and food menu with an emphasis on local specialties—The OG (as some call it) takes traditional Italian food to new heights with “beautiful farm-to-table-style creations carrying an Italian soul.” Helmed by executive chef Manny Lozano, who trained in France and worked at several high-end restaurants in New York City, the modern Italian resto feats seasonal starters, entrees and desserts that’ll keep you coming back for more—think meatball Wellington, gnocchi fondue, bucatini puttanesca and ragu Napoletano—plus Italian wine and spirits, natch. It may just be the next best thing to dining in Italy—and far cheaper than a plane ticket. Ciao, bella! osteriag.com

outside Raleigh

3. OC Aerial
DURHAM
Thrill-seekers, this one’s for you. This adrenaline junkie playground is the ultimate all-in-one 16,000-square-foot indoor adventure park, feat. ninja obstacle courses, a warp wall, rock climbing, zip line and super-cool slick slides that launch riders onto an inflated cushion (!)—taking the Tom Petty song “Free Fallin’” to a whole new level. And if  you’re really looking for an adrenaline boost, take on the Leap of Faith, a belayed free fall from 22 feet. … The name says it all. Think you have the guts?
oc-aerial.com 

outside Raleigh

4. Carrboro Music Festival
CARRBORO
Anyone who’s been to this community-minded fest will tell you it’s “Carrboro’s favorite day.” This year, 100 local bands—think Organ Failure, Too Much Fun, Sad Magazine, The Gone Ghosts and more—will take to the stage at 16 venues across town, from Weaver Street Market to Cat’s Cradle to The Station to Steel String Brewery, offering a diverse range of music specifically chosen for each of the venues. And to boot, this year will be the first time the musicians are getting paid (!). Established in 1998, the festival was originally held as an official affiliate of the Fête de la Musique (aka Make Music Day) to “make all genres of music more accessible to the public through free concerts.” Get ready to jam out outside Raleigh! carrboromusicfestival.com

5. Taipei 101
CARY
Let us school you on what might be the best and most authentic Chinese food in the Triangle (case in point: It’s made N&O’s list of Best Restaurants: Best Chinese (Taiwanese) for the past six years!). Founded with a goal of offering a side of Chinese food not typically found in the buffet lines, this hidden gem specializes in Szechuan, Zhejiang and Taiwanese styles of cooking, with fave dishes including the scallion beef pancake roll, Szechuan-style beef noodle soup, anchovy fried rice and mini steamed buns. You’re gonna wanna ditch your standard Chinese takeout stat. carytaipei101nc.com

FOOD FAMOUS

FOOD FAMOUS

Unless you’re taking a summer social media/news siesta, you’ve no doubt heard chef Ricky Moore of Durham’s Saltbox Seafood Joint brought home the James Beard Award for Best Chef: Southeast—and what a huge honor for him, the Triangle… and fishermen. Echoing that sentiment was Moore himself as he took stage to accept the culinary world’s highest regional honor: “Bull City, North Carolina! I opened up a place that celebrates North Carolina seafood, so I’m going to shout out North Carolina fisher folk—mean[ing] fishermen and women.” So if you haven’t been to SSJ in a while—or ever—use this summer as an excuse to feast on what foodies near and far have been raving about, from the myriad fried or spice-griddled seafood options (which vary based on what’s been caught by NC fishermen that day) to Moore’s signature Hush-Honeys, aka fried cornmeal fritters glazed with honey (and, yes, you’re gonna want a lot of those). What could be more perfect than fresh-caught North Carolina seafood in the summertime? We’re calling it: It’s o-fish-ally Saltbox season. saltboxseafoodjoint.com