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How to Not Be *That* Person at Concerts

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How to not be that person at concerts

If you’ve bought concert tickets lately, you no doubt have paid the price. Scalpers and fees aside, costs have climbed 19% post-pandemic. Fans keep showing up—even waiting in uberlong online queues to boot—but when shelling out for live music, they expect the show to be worth it.

That vibe, though, is only as good as the audience. As a former Raleigh venue employee, I’ve witnessed firsthand how the crowd absolutely makes or breaks a show for everyone: fans, artists and staff.

So as the first shows of concert/fest season kick off at Raleigh’s biggest outdoor venues this month with big names like Tyler Childers, Pearl Jam and The Kooks, we all want the most for our money. For a crash course on what not to do, we rehash behavior gone bad across a host of local/viral incidents.


Do’s and Don’ts of Live Music
Red FlagArtistAvg. TicketVenueBasis for Blame
Fans filming entire
show on an iPad
held overhead
Stevie Nicks$45–$146Lenovo CenterThose behind you
don’t want to watch the show through your
grainy screen.
Audience hurling water
bottles—prompting a
bottle-cap ban
Snoop Dogg$110–$400Coastal Credit Union at Walnut CreekWould you want to get hit in the head by a flying object? 
Viral brawlMariah Carey$45–$105CFG Bank Arena BaltimoreViolence isn’t the vibe. 
Deafening crowd
chorus
Mt. Joy$52.50+Red Hat AmphitheaterNo one paid to hear you sing.
Spectator chucked a
camera at Lacy and hit him square in the torso
Steve Lacy~$40Orpheum Theater New OrleansThis isn’t dodgeball.
Fans stuck around after like they paid rent.Eric Church$99–$499Coastal Credit Union at Walnut CreekYou don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here.
Crowd posted up in the pit with massive signsDrake$130–$560Qudos Bank Arena Sydney Olympic Park
Didn’t pay for a view of
the back of a sign begging for a free vacation.

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