Scams—we’ve all seen ’em, we’ve all fallen for ’em. Affinity fraud, or investment scams—when scammers pretend to be from the government or your bank and ask for money—are considered the most common and toughest to avoid. Even local attorney Yolanda D. McGill admits she “got got” when someone “from the sheriff’s department” called requesting money to pay jury duty fines. “They are tough to avoid,” she says. “Scammers will play on things you might not want to talk about.”
But these scams aren’t just targeted at adults. All populations are vulnerable to affinity scams—including teens, who, perhaps surprisingly, are also vulnerable targets for online scams, reportedly falling for a tetrad of online scams “faster than their grandparents.” While “seniors remain by far the most victimized group overall—losing $1.68 billion last year—the surge of Gen Z victims is alarming and speaks to the growing sophistication of scammers,” says Social Catfish founder David McClellan. The people search and verification tool recently released a study on the State of Internet Scams 2022 using 2022 data from the FBI IC3 and FTC. According to that data, North Carolina is the No. 18 most-scammed state in the nation—and these are the four most common scams targeting teens and how to avoid them.
Sextortion
Mostly targeted toward males, sextortion is when a scammer poses as an attractive female on social media, sends nude photos to the victim and asks for the same in return. Once received, the scammer threatens to leak the person’s photos to their family/friends or online if they don’t send a requested sum of money. To avoid, perform a reverse image search to confirm whether or not the person you’re chatting with on social media is really who they say they are.
Student Loan Forgiveness
With the recent announcement of the Student Loan Debt Relief plan, fake websites using mocked up Department of Education logos are tricking teens—and adults—into providing their bank info to have their debt forgiven. It’s important to only use the Department of Education’s official financial site, studentaid.gov.
Online Gaming
Teens who play online video games are vulnerable to scammers who pose as fake vendors during in-game chats to get them to make in-game purchases—resulting in the scammer gaining access to all their information. To fend off this fraud, ensure your teen does not click any direct links in their DM’s.
Talent Scouts
Social talent scouts—aka Instagram or TikTok users offering modeling and acting opportunities—are rampant. During the free “application process,” they will request your personal information and then use it to commit identity theft. Be wary of these “scouts” and always research the company first to make sure it’s legit.
We’re all about giving back to our community, which is why throughout the year we feature local nonprofits that are doing the good deed of doing good for those in need. These orgs make it easy for you to give back as well—and what better excuse to lend a hand to the community than Giving Tuesday?
To make it easy, we’ve compiled a host of orgs that we’ve featured in Raleigh Magazine this past year worth your consideration. Click the links below to learn more about their missions and how your donations make an impact.
Boys & Girls Clubs: Read our story on Boys & Girls Clubs’ new Connected Learning Center here and donate here.
Housing Options for Students Today (HOST): Read our story on how HOST is helping halt homelessness among college students here and learn how you can support their mission here.
SAFEchild: Read our story on SAFEchild’s new facility here and donate here.
The Green Chair Project: Read our feature on The Green Chair Project’s recent Chairity 2022 event here and learn how to donate here. Additionally, the org is hosting a Giving Twosday event this year. Bring any two of its most-needed items to Green Chair on Nov. 29 and receive a cookie from Tiff’s Treats.
CASA: Read our story on CASA’s supportive housing community in Raleigh here and donate here.
The ALS Association North Carolina Chapter: In April, we held a monthlong Gin for the Win celebration with pop-ups to benefit the ALS Association North Carolina Chapter (in partnership with local bars and restaurants). Donate to the chapter here.
Raleigh🤍 Stickers + Magnets: We created magnets and stickers with all proceeds going toward RPD officer Gabriel Torres’ family following the tragic shooting that took place in Raleigh in October. Torres, who was off-duty at the time, was one of the five people killed. Purchase a magnet and/or sticker here.
Hailey Brooks’ GoFundMe: A GoFundMe page was set up for Hailey Brooks, the little girl who was lost during the Raleigh Christmas Parade earlier this month. Donate here.
Slurp up these 7 soups around town to keep warm this season.
“Gorgeous, gorgeous girls (and guys) love soup…” After temps in Raleigh officially dropped down to 30 degrees (brrr!), we can officially declare that it’s #SoupSzn. And nothing makes miso happy on a cold day than a big ol’ bowl of hot soup. Here, we roundup some of the most delicious soups in town to keep you warm even when the degrees drop below freezing.
Nothing takes you back to your childhood like a tomato soup and grilled cheese combo, which gets an adult upgrade at Union Special. And, yes, dipping is encouraged.
Everything you love about a baked potato is put into soup form via Wye Hill’s loaded sweet potato soup, a cozy soup starring fried sweet potato skins, country ham crumbles, smoked gouda and creme. Served on Wye Hill’s heated and covered patio, it’s a sure way to cure the winter blues.
Cold-weather comfort—New Orleans style. St. Roch’s hearty gumbo stars andouille, chicken, red potato salad and trout roe—and is guaranteed to warm you up, no matter how cold your heart may be.
Comfort meets kindness with a cup or bowl of Carroll’s Kitchen’s chicken velvet soup—made with a creamy chicken broth, grilled chicken and fresh herbs—makes for a soup-erb lunch, not only because it’s delicious, but also because it helps support the nonprofit’s mission of providing employment for women overcoming traumas like addiction, homelessness, incarceration and domestic violence.
Noodle Boulevard’s ramens are pure comfort in a bowl. Our current fave is the chicken curry ramen, which combines everything you love about curry with a big, hot bowl of noodle soup. Ahh, we’re feeling warmer already!
The best surprise is one that involves soup. My Way Tavern keeps things interesting with a rotating soup of the week—the broccoli cheddar is a hit (just look at how gooey and cheesy!), but loaded potato soup and clam chowder have also been known to grace the menu.
Locally owned steakhouses seem to be a bit of an anomaly, as Raleigh boasts only three total. Now, as a new local powerhouse steakhouse is slated to take the scene by storm, we dig into the meat of the matter.
“Steakhouses are classic—it’s Americana,” says Emily Barefoot, manager of The Peddler and daughter of the original owner. And there’s just something about them that we associate with celebrations. Whether for a birthday, engagement, anniversary or any other big life event, a steakhouse is the go-to.
Steakhouses (and steak) are so symbolic in fact that they pervade even pop culture in their significance across endless iconic scenes, from John Candy memorably masticating fat and gristle in The Great Outdoors to the perfectly cooked ribeye in The Matrix to Goodfellas’ famed steak prison dinner scene (“medium rare?—hmm, an aristocrat”)—to, more recently, a breathless Andy Sachs (Anne Hathaway) bursting into a fancy steakhouse to pick up a steak for dictator boss Miranda Priestly to signify the prime beef’s supreme status via the ridiculousness of the ask. Read: Who gets $teak to go?
But it’s not just the steak. The atmosphere is a major draw—as is the nostalgia it invokes. The ambiance, the fare, the wine, the mood lighting, the white-apron service… they meld to create an experience unparalleled. And they draw on a very collective American experience. And, yet, locally owned steakhouses are, well, rare.
You may or may not know that a locally owned steakhouse has not opened in Raleigh since Reagan was president—or that Raleigh boasts only three, each very unique in identity. There’s the legendary Angus Barn, a literal barn to which people have been flocking for benchmark birthdays, engagements, retirements, company parties, date nights and beyond since it flung open its barn doors in 1960. Every Raleighite has a story there (Raleigh Magazine spent its last three Christmas parties there; our publisher recently celebrated a big birthday for one of her children there; and it’s even where our editor spent her sweet 16 back in the day). From the Wild Turkey Lounge to the meat locker and fire pit in the back, everyone has a favorite spot and memory at the Barn—its popularity proven by its status as one of the most profitable restaurants in the country according to Restaurant Business Magazine.
The Peddler has been serving aged-to-perfection steaks out of its original family-owned and -operated Glenwood Avenue location since 1969.
For a more saloon-style experience, there’s The Peddler, a family-owned and -operated steakhouse that opened in an unassuming strip mall in Northwest Raleigh in 1969—and will surely transport you back in time to that era thanks to its wooden walls and carpeted dining room, dim lighting, and background jazz music… not to mention its traditional throwback salad bar.
Vinnie’s chef/GM Armstrong emphasizes the resto is more than just a steakhouse, and he’s worked at expanding the menu since he took the helm as chef.
And bringing us to the Reagan era, Vinnie’s Steakhouse & Tavern entered the scene in 1987 with its Al Pacino-esque vibes. You can almost picture cigar smoke swirling against the apropos dark wooden walls and classic white-tablecloth-dotted room. Named for famous Vince McMahon—the founder and operator of World Wrestling Entertainment, with whom former owner Dusty Anderson went to school—Vinnie’s also houses a small wine cellar located in the middle of the restaurant and a separate tavern menu for the bar, which feels just as welcoming as your go-to neighborhood hangout.
Each a traditional steakhouse in its own right, each has its own unique feel—and frequenters, due not only to the great food offered, but the service. “Maybe the most important thing, whether you’re a steakhouse or not, is consistency,” says Vinnie’s chef and GM Tom Armstrong, who’s been at the restaurant for nearly 17 years. “People want to know what to expect and what they’re gonna get. In the restaurant industry, it’s not just about food, it’s about the people who are taking care of you.”
People have always been drawn to steakhouses as their go-to celebratory spot. But why?
“If you think back, it wasn’t gourmet restaurants, it was steakhouses—and that’s where you went to get a really great dinner,” says Walter Royal, Angus Barn’s chef for the last 27 years.
From a price-point perspective, it makes sense. We associate celebrations with splurging—and steak is expensive. “People associate a great steak with indulgence and celebration,” emphasizes Nicholas Papas, GM of renowned regional chain Oak Steakhouse, who touts a long career in the steakhouse industry.
And that trend has stood the test of time. A cornerstone of U.S. restaurant history, steakhouses were born in the mid-1800s, with the first established in New York’s Meatpacking District. Set apart by high-quality cuts of beef, these OG chophouses—as they were also called—were reserved for the upper class, and mostly geared toward men, what with their “masculine” atmosphere. Think leather seating, dark wood furniture, dim lighting, cigars. Though—while their pricey, upscale status remained—eventually, steakhouses became more female- and family-friendly.
Ultimately, if you’re going to eat a steak that’s $70, $80, $110, adds Papas, why wouldn’t you want to sit in a beautiful restaurant with great music, great lighting and just a great atmosphere? “Because then you get a great experience—you don’t just get dinner,” he says. Not to mention, steak isn’t something most people cook on a regular basis, given its cost.
In fact, the steak-sperts we spoke to all reiterated that the grill cook in a steakhouse is the most important person in the room, as steak is typically the most expensive product in the building, and they’re handling hundreds, if not thousands of dollars nightly.
Local Chef Comeup
Bigwig local chefs and restaurateurs don’t often delve into steakhouses—that is, until now. Enter prolific restaurateur Scott Crawford’s Crawford Brothers Steakhouse, anticipated to open in Fenton in 2024. But why now?
To that he answers: “I’ve always thought it was a concept we could do very well—our interpretation of a classic concept. We have done that thus far.” Take Crawford & Son, his modern interpretation of a neighborhood American restaurant; Jolie, an interpretation of a classic Parisian bistro; and even Crawford Cookshop, a modern interpretation of a neighborhood grill.
Never mind that a larger restaurant would also give Crawford and his restaurant group the ability to serve larger parties, which they’re unable to do at Crawford’s existing smaller locations. “And we think the steakhouse concept is perfect for that,” he says.
And despite the fact that Raleigh is growing rapidly, with new restaurants opening almost every other day, people love the nostalgia of a tried-and-true spot, which goes hand-in-hand with the nostalgic appeal of dining at a steakhouse in general. “There’s such depth of character in those [locally owned] places,” says Crawford. “That’s what I love about them.”
With Crawford Brothers Steakhouse, Crawford fully intends to honor some of the traditions you see in a classic steakhouse (a la carte steaks, for example), while implementing a little more creativity and a modern interpretation—think aged steaks, specialty beef like wagyu and chef-driven sides, plus an elevated cocktail program. Crawford also plans to create a membership club, with a secret room for members to host private dinners (!).
“I think there’s a good place for all steakhouses,” says Crawford. “I think people will realize, though, when they come to [Crawford Brothers] why and how ours stands out.”
Chef Scott Crawford
Up the Chain
Let’s be real. There’s a reason why most steakhouses throughout the country—and in Raleigh—are typically chains. “Money talks,” explains Papas. “In order to have consistency and quality, you have to have a good source of protein—your meat has to be coming from a great farm. So a larger chain might be able to get in there and get a good rate, a good contract and establish a really good relationship.”
Of course, chain steakhouses have their place and people know what to expect, says Crawford. Take Texas Roadhouse, which boasts 600+ locations across the country and greatly increased its sales over the last couple years, with Restaurant Business reporting a 15% increase compared to 2019 this past December. (And who doesn’t love those rolls.)
But while chain steakhouses have certainly staked their claim in the area, the City of Oaks’ own prominent long-standing locally owned steakhouses have managed to prosper—so, obviously, they’re doing something right.
For its part, Angus Barn has survived—and thrived—for so long not just because of its reputable food, wine and service, but “merely the fact of how we make people feel,” says Royal. “When you’re dining with us at the Angus Barn, you are the most important person in the world. People come here for the longevity. They know the quality, the name.”
“I take pride in the fact that I have so many staff members who have stuck around for so long. A couple managers have been here for 10, 12 years, which doesn’t happen very often in this industry. It’s a good sign, and it’s good for business.”
—Tom Armstrong, Vinnie’s chef/GM
As for The Peddler: “We are quite literally a classic,” says Barefoot. “I think The Peddler has managed to stay successful for so long because we don’t waiver in our quality or the customer experience—we try to stay a little current in regards to atmosphere and palates, but this is the same exact Peddler that your parents or grandparents brought you to as a kid.”
Independent steakhouses have more freedom to experiment than a chain steakhouse might, maintains Crawford, given they tend to be chef-driven and the quality’s controlled in-house, rather than by a corporate-type entity.
But Crawford isn’t the only prominent chef around the country throwing his hat around the horns. Top national restaurateurs who cut their teeth with creative concepts similar to, say, Crawford & Son have also been opening their own steakhouses—see Ford Fry’sMarcel in Atlanta and CUT by Wolfgang Puck, the latter of which now touting eight locations worldwide.
So is this truly a sign of a steak resurgence? Or will it take another 40 years for a local chef to open another steakhouse? Well, let’s hope not.
Hop over to Asheville for great eats, drinks & more.
If there’s one thing Asheville is known for, it’s the breweries (So. Many. Breweries!). The first time I visited “Beer City USA,” I naturally went on a lengthy brewery-hop, stopping for a cold one at all the go-tos: Wicked Weed Brewing, The Funkatorium, Bhramari Brewing… I could go on.
I’ve since learned there’s much more to this eclectic, vibey mountain town than breweries—including a host of nicknames (also dubbed the “Paris of the South”). Of course, you have the surrounding Blue Ridge Mountains with tons of trails to trek (pro tip: hikes before hops), a thriving eclectic arts and culture scene (think the South Slope Mural Trail, the River Arts District, etc.), and a rank of restos putting the small-but-mighty mountain town on the map (hey, 2022 James Beard Award for Outstanding Restaurant Chai Pani).
On my recent return to Asheville with fellow Raleigh Mag teammates, we made our way through the “Land of the Sky”—eating, drinking and resting our heads between bites and sips… including a night’s stay at The Omni Grove Park Inn, which was by far the most surreal and palatial hotel I’ve ever experienced. Here’s a taste of what we, well, tasted—a great bucket list for those who’ve never been to AVL or who, like me, were just doing Asheville wrong. Hoppy trails!
Cúrate (Evan Sung)
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Cúrate
Don’t ask us how to pronounce the name of this James Beard Award-winning staple by chef Katie Button, but do ask us what our fave tapas were. Answer: the croquetas de pollo (aka creamy chicken fritters), patatas bravas (crispy fried potatoes topped with a tomato and garlic sauce) and gambas al ajillo (sauteed shrimp served in a tasty broth that must be sopped up with the side of bread). Oh, and get the sangria—trust us. curatetapasbar.com
Biscuit Head
Son of a biscuit! You haven’t lived until you’ve had a biscuit from this Asheville mainstay—seriously, they’re that good (perfectly fluffy, flaky and buttery—100% worth the inevitable wait). Spring for a plain biscuit and load up on the vast selection of jams (we tried them all, so no judgment) or indulge in one of the biscuit sandwiches—the fried green tomato biscuit won us over. biscuitheads.com
Chestnut
With everything made in-house—from the pickled veggies to the french fries to the ice cream—or sourced locally, this cozy, approachable resto was a standout. We could just taste the freshness of the soup of the day (a comfortable chowder when we visited) and the shrimp and grits (with blue corn grits providing a nice touch). And you’re gonna wanna save room for that aforementioned homemade ice cream. Delish! chestnutasheville.com
La Bodega by Cúrate
We originally went to this pandemic-born all-day Spanish cafe, market and wine bar for a simple—yet super-satisfying—sandwich, but ended up snacking on a host of delicious pintxos, including the olive oil potato chips with marinated olives, short rib empanadas, jamón, potato and onion omelet, and so much more. And, naturally, on our way out, we grabbed a bottle of sangria from the market to take home. Salud! curatetapasbar.com/la-bodega
Sovereign Remedies (Brian Konutko)
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Sovereign Remedies
As the name would suggest, this ethereal restaurant and bar is full of treasures—from the locally built fixtures and furniture to the plethora of plants to the floor-to-ceiling shelves lining the wall behind the bar to the incredible edibles and libations themselves (think seasonally rotating small plates and unique cocktails). We thought of it like a botanical Dram & Draught—with food, of course—and it was a vibe. sovereignremedies.com
Burial Beer Co.
We all know how good Burial’s beer is thanks to its happening Transfer Co. Food Hall outpost in DTR—NTM the eye-catching (and sometimes dark) can designs that you just can’t forget about… But at the craft brewery’s OG Asheville taproom, it was the frosé that we were drawn to (you can’t blame us—it was 100 degrees in the middle of July!), and, boy, did it hit the spot. burialbeer.com
Botanist & Barrel
Our in-cider scoop? Get one (or both!) of the cider flights so you can try a variety of unique offerings from this Cedar Grove-based cidery/winery, as well as a make-your-own charcuterie board with local cheeses and meats. And pop a squat in the charming tasting bar/bottle shop to while away the day. It doesn’t get much cheddar than that. botanistandbarrel.com
Getaway River Bar
“Outta the way in a good way” is this laid-back beach-esque bar in the mountains, another concept from Charlie Hodge, owner of Sovereign Remedies. Though on a complete opposite end of the spectrum from the hip downtown AVL sip and sup spot, this riverside dive with waterfront Adirondacks, outdoor bar area and indoor pool tables promises equally good drinks (Our faves? The killer painkiller and rum runner slushie). So chill. getawayontheriver.com
Kimpton Hotel Arras
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Cambria Hotel Downtown Asheville
If you want to feel like a VIP, book a room at this trendy hotel (recognized as the 2021 Best of Choice Hotel of the Year for the Cambria Hotels brand) boasting sophisticated rooms, high-tech amenities and front-row seats to downtown AVL—with gorge mountain views to boot (aka the best of both worlds!). Upon arrival, we were treated to a glass of Champagne, and, once we left, gifted a thank-you jar of honey. It’s the little things, right?cambriadowntownasheville.com
The Omni Grove Park Inn
I’d like to think of this stunning resort as a Great Wolf Lodge for adults. Instead of a waterpark, there’s a nationally recognized subterranean spa, a pristine Donald Ross-designed golf course, and a host of great bars and restaurants. After a satisfying dinner on the Sunset Terrace overlooking the Blue Ridge Mountains, we rec enjoying a nightcap in the lobby cozied up by the fire, or going down to the always-fun Elaine’s Dueling Piano Bar for weekend entertainment. omnihotels.com
Kimpton Hotel Arras
It’s all about location, location, location—and this historic bank-turned-boutique hotel in Pack Square is smack in the middle of all the action, walkable to almost all of the food and bev spots mentioned here, plus other faves like Wicked Weed Brewing and The Orange Peel. Pro tip: Before venturing out, grab a ’tail at the hotel bar, District 42. Cheers! hotelarras.com