Impact Your City With $10!

Impact Your City With $10!

There’s still time to make a difference.

What if we told you you could change your city with just $5? Enter our sophomore Give Raleigh campaign, where that’s exactly what you can do—and double your impact. 

Until Dec. 15, every donation—whether $5, $10 or some larger amount you have to spare or want for a tax write-off—is being matched by our partner TowneBank/Towne Insurance, up to the first $10K donated.

Making good on Aesop’s proverb that “no act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted,” every dollar literally adds up—and galvanizes the generous spirit of Raleighites. “I’ve seen firsthand, over and over again, that Raleigh is a city full of passionate and generous people,” says Nicole Stewart, former Raleigh city councilor and current director of engagement for the A.J. Fletcher Foundation. “When there is a cause they care about, they give what they can to support it. And small dollar donations add up and make a huge difference—especially for our local nonprofits.”  

There’s still time to give, to make a difference with just a few dollars—and help us smash the near $25K we raised out of the gate last year. We are so thrilled to use our bullhorn for benevolence as we partner with this year’s trio of local nonprofits touching every age group and innumerable need—Haven House, Healing Transitions and SAFEchild—for a better tomorrow for all of us. It’s giving generous! Donate now at giveraleigh.com.


Haven House

Building strong young people and bright futures for five impactful decades, Haven House’s legacy is one for the books. Empowering youths ages 6–24 who are homeless; in crisis; or having difficulty at home, school or in the community to understand, work through and overcome challenges, the local safe haven is the place for vulnerable youth to find their way—and find the help they need. “Haven House served over 1,500 youth last year—a 25% increase from the year before—reflecting the urgent and growing needs in our community,” says Haven House Chief Executive Officer Michelle Zechmann. “The Give Raleigh campaign is vital to meeting those needs by helping us reach more young people. … Every donation, no matter the size, is about coming together to provide hope and a brighter future for all.” havenhousenc.org

EVERY DONATION MAKES AN IMPACT
$5 💰


One meal for a youth (10–17) at Wrenn House 

$10 💰💰

One pair of athletic shorts for
intervention program

$25 💰💰💰


One day of outreach and basic needs for youth experiencing homelessness

$50 💰💰💰💰


One hour of crisis counseling to youth and/or their families


Healing Transitions

At the core of every community is its people—all of them. And Healing Transitions is a beacon of real community for all Raleighites via its “Recovery for All” MO: Always open. Always free. Always everyone. Always another chance. Always community. And no matter who we are or how it begins, we all come to the same realization that we’re powerless to control addiction alone. Thankfully, there’s a way to prevent from-OD-to-RIP. “Healing Transitions is committed to making essential, effective recovery services accessible to everyone—especially those who are homeless, uninsured and underserved,” says Healing Transitions Executive Director Chris Budnick. “To eliminate barriers, we offer all of our services completely free of charge. This means every single donation—no matter the size—plays a critical role in our mission. When we say every dollar matters, it’s because it helps us continue saving and transforming lives—and the impact doesn’t stop there. It ripples out, touching families, friends and the broader community. It’s our neighbors’ support that makes this possible.” healing-transitions.org

EVERY DONATION MAKES AN IMPACT
$5 💰

One meal

$10 💰💰

Average
prescription

$25 💰💰💰

Day of service
on campus

$50 💰💰💰💰

24-hour stay in nonmedical detox


SAFEchild

Safety is not a birthright. But it should be. And they don’t teach parenting in school. But, fortunately, bringing healthy families to the forefront is SAFEchild via its roster of support and education services you won’t find anywhere else. In short, in a world where access is everything, SAFEchild is changing—and saving—lives. “We are the place for parent education and support, children’s medical evaluations when there is suspected abuse, and school-based programs in every Wake County public elementary school, plus several charter and private schools,” says SAFEchild’s Executive Director Cristin DeRonja. “We are that safety net for children and families in Wake County. Every dollar means so much to us… to be able to provide life-saving and life-changing services to children and families. And every dollar raised through Give Raleigh to ensure SAFEchild’s mission can thrive is critical to the health of the community.” safechildnc.org

EVERY DONATION MAKES AN IMPACT
$5 💰

Child care for a family attending SAFEchild parenting classes

$10 💰💰

Medical gown for a child seen in SAFEchild’s
 Advocacy Center

$25 💰💰💰

Funny Tummy Feelings programming for a Wake County first-grade classroom

$50 💰💰💰💰

Parenting classes, meals and child care for three Wake County families in SAFEchild classes

Give Raleigh
  1. Visit GiveRaleigh.com
  2. Select Charity
  3. Donate!

Raleigh Earns Elite Status With New RH

Raleigh Earns Elite Status With New RH

RH Raleigh, The Gallery at North Hills marks a major moment for Raleigh. 

Chicago, Denver, LA, Munich, Madrid, NYC… Raleigh is joining the elite roster of cities housing a swanky RH gallery (formerly known as Restoration Hardware) experience.

Enter the highly anticipated innovative, immersive RH Raleigh, The Gallery at North Hills, opening Nov. 1 in the former North Hills JCPenney space that “provided an ideal opportunity,” for the tremendous 60,000-plus-square-foot experience, says Kane Realty Corporation SVP and Director of Retail Leasing Steve Brown. 

“RH is very methodical and extremely selective of where they open these stores,” Brown continues. “[They] knew North Hills is arguably the best market position for the store. … Many discerning and affluent customers consider [RH] best in class. Therefore, it sends a resounding message to other notable retail brands that Raleigh is a growing, vibrant and sophisticated market with well-traveled customers wanting higher-quality goods.”

More than just a gallery—and unlike anything Raleigh’s ever seen—the three-level interiors and multisensory experience blurs the lines between residential and retail, home and hospitality, indoors and outdoors.

Multilevel Experience

Level One: RH Interiors
Level Two: RH Contemporary, RH Modern, RH Interior Design Studio
Level Three: Rooftop restaurant & park, wine bar, RH Outdoor

Beyond an entry courtyard flanked by beautifully appointed loggias aglow with handcrafted Italian travertine fire tables, an epic experience awaits. Entree through 25-foot glass and steel doors reveals a central hall brimming with natural light and unobstructed views of lush immersive Euro-inspired courtyards and periphery-dotted rooms housing artistic installations featuring RH interiors—an homage to refined design across the ages and one-of-a-kind antiques from RH CEO Gary Friedman’s world travels. 

Ascending a grand double-floating staircase illuminated with natural skylight and cast glass lattice chandeliers, an expansive exhibition space unfolds across a trio of experiences, including RH Contemporary and the brand’s newest and most compelling RH Modern. The constantly evolving collection highlights today’s most celebrated designers, visionary pieces and industry icons in a tribute to 20th century modernism via the largest assortment of modern furnishings, lighting, textiles and decor under one brand the world over. 

Rounding out the midlevel, an interactive state-of-the-art atelier showcases designers in a highly styled floor-to-ceiling glass RH Interior Design Studio, complete with a private client presentation room. The floor also spotlights the brand’s exclusive rug collection, vast assortment of textiles, and furniture and lighting finishes.

Topping off the stunning culmination of concepts, atop the grand staircase flanked by a pair of monumental wall fountains is a rooftop restaurant that dishes the brand’s latest reimaginings. Set within a year-round skylit garden escape punctuated by sparkling chandeliers, faux olive trees and a cast-stone fountain, the space seamlessly unfurls into the immersive alfresco European-garden-influenced landscaped park. Also featuring intimate RH Outdoor Lounge spaces appointed with London Plane trees, shade canopies and sculptural evergreens, the alfresco attraction is ideal for sipping on the exceptional global wine and Champagne pours from the adjacent wine bar.

“We’ve been at this a long time,” says Friedman. “We opened our first restaurant in 2015, [and] we have 22 restaurants today. … In somewhere like Raleigh, we know the volume we do. We know when we open a new gallery what the lift is. … Almost every market [where] we’re opening these larger, more immersive, inspiring galleries, we have the data. It’s about understanding the math, connecting the dots, conceptualizing new and bigger and better versions of ourselves.” 

There’s no doubt this version will set a new standard of luxury in Raleigh—and that its very existence signifies Raleigh has been bumped up to the big leagues. Never mind what the new arrival will mean for the future of North Hills: “The opening of an RH gallery at North Hills substantiates to other high-quality and luxury merchants how dynamic the property is,” Brown emphasizes. “That will equate to other brands wanting to be here.” Translation: Raleigh has arrived—in style. rh.com

RH Raleigh lobster rolls
2024 RM Gift Guide

2024 RM Gift Guide

Make spirits bright this holiday season with our handpicked local gift guide.

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Aunt Ruby’s Peanuts offers the perfect option for holiday gifting. The Fabulous Five serves up all the roasted products, plus the famous chocolate peanut clusters. Go nuts! auntrubyspeanuts.com

Hoop there it is! Spoil your SO with these petite diamond-lined huggie hoops for a splash of subtle sparkle every day. Bailey’s Icon Collection tiny diamond hoop earrings, .07 carats, white, rose or 14K gold, $395, Bailey’s Fine Jewelry

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Burberry reversible tote? Chanel Diana shoulder bag? Saint Laurent flap wallet? Say less. Color us obsessed—and effortlessly chic—with Season 2’s authentic luxe consignment accessories. Tote, $785; shoulder bag, $8,000; wallet, $650; subscribe for 10% off first purchase; season2consign.com


Put the “rum” in “pa rum pum pum pum” and keep spirits high this season with Kill Devil spiced rum, a blend of flavors that transports you to the sun-soaked shores via 11 carefully selected spices, citrus peel and fig. 40% ABV, $29.95, ABC stores, outerbanksdistilling.com

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Cozy season, meet the ultraplush Woodhouse Spa robe—sure to turn any home into a spa sanctuary. Wrap yourself and those you love in luxe comfort with this signature blend of elegance and mod sophistication for ultimate relaxation. $125, Woodhouse Spa North Hills

Treat yo’self. Give the gift of splurge this holiday season with a North Hills gift card for use at almost any store, restaurant or salon. visitnorthhills.com/gift-cards

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Renew their gin membership this holiday season via carefully curated world-class Moonbird Gin and GOATz Rum from the minds of Dram & Draught owners, distilled with myriad botanicals and minimal sugar. Translation: Smooth enough to shoot straight, yet balanced enough to mix into a cocktail. Cheers! ABC stores, spiritofthedao.com


Design is in the details. Make their every corner a masterpiece via Trig Modern’s custom sculptured glass, hangable art and tailored home furnishings. From $200, trigmodern.com


When you give her that Bailey box, make sure it’s stuffed with these ~iconic~ pearl-drop hoops. Bailey’s Icon Collection pearl drop hoop earrings, 14K gold, $695, Bailey’s Fine Jewelry, baileybox.com


Hey, mood lighting. Light up their life—and home—this winter with Northern Lights refillable hand-decorated Esque wax painted luminaries from Homewood Nursery with phthalate- and paraben-free fragrance inserts to match any moment or mood. Luminary, $84.99; candle insert, $19.99; homewoodnursery.com


Show them you think they’re, ahem, neat with basically any bottle of bourbon from local fave Olde Raleigh Distillery, from small-batch to straight bourbon whiskey and beyond—and thank us later. Prices vary, olderaleighdistillery.com


Give the gift of kindness. The second book by Raleigh Mag EIC Melissa Howsam entertains while imparting a powerful message of being kind above all else. $8.99, amazon.com

A Look at Baldwin’s Tenure

A Look at Baldwin’s Tenure

Whatever you may think of Mayor Mary-Ann Baldwin, you likely think something—strongly. We look back at the “notorious” city leader’s provocative tenure.

Love her or loathe her, the one thing everyone can agree on is Mary-Ann Baldwin has struck a chord in Raleigh. And she loves it. 

Dubbed “Notorious MAB” by INDY Week when she announced her run for mayor with the intent to “lead the city into a bold progressive future” on the heels of the “Council of No,” Baldwin retorted by proudly—albeit facetiously—splashing the “notorious” moniker across T-shirts. Five years later, the two-peat mayor has boldly fulfilled that promise every day since. And, now, as she’s set to pass the baton as the Cap City’s second-consecutive—and third-ever, behind Nancy McFarland (2011–19) and Isabella Cannon (77–79)—female mayor, she opens up to Raleigh Magazine about her time at the helm. 


The blunted “moonshot” mayor began with so much hope. Elected on the heels of her already notorious five-term run as at-large Raleigh City Council member (think “Drunktown,” pro-development, etc.), she famously dreamed 2020 would be Raleigh’s shot for the stars. That is, until a pandemic ~90 days in turned the town—and the world—upside down. A handful of years later, the mayor of COVID, social unrest, development starts and stalls, and Citizen Advisory Council (CAC) conflict cedes a city that looks far different than its prepandemic persona. 

And it is arguably the pandemic that has most shaped her public perception. But despite the economic and social upheaval, Baldwin—alongside an initial-term “pro-development” council—made good on plenty.

Mary-Ann Baldwin

From the jump, Mary-Ann Baldwin publicly devoted herself to zoning reform and solving what she calls “the missing middle” by allowing Accessory Dwelling Units and increasing housing supply to level the homeownership playing field in response to rapid growth. But that commitment was met with an all-out war from residents wanting to “Save Our Neighborhoods” from an influx of townhomes and duplexes, specifically in Five Points, famously dubbed “ground zero for Raleigh’s housing fight” by Axios. Essentially, the public feared the price of housing volume would come at the cost of character.

“Townhouses are usually somebody’s entree to homeownership,” explains Baldwin of her push. “When I was first elected, you could only build a townhome in 20% of our city. I talked a lot about housing choice. It’s not affordable housing. It’s really about housing affordability and choice—quads, duplexes, etc.” 

One of the stats she says she is most proud of is, over the past two years, about one-third of the building permits issued are missing middle. “The whole missing middle—while some people consider it controversial—it’s for the better of our city. And it’s also what you see trending as a way to address the housing shortage in cities across the country,” she maintains. “Bottom line is we don’t have enough supply. … And what I’m proudest of is what we’ve done with affordable housing. It’s been pretty amazing.” 

She cites the $80 million affordable housing bond greenlit by voters on her watch, and projects like the  ~$1.5 mill Idlewild, city-owned historic land sold for a dollar to make way for the city’s first cottage court permanent affordable housing.  “And, just the other day, we approved $5 million for a new program that will help our unsheltered. We’re looking at getting 40 unsheltered families into permanent housing.” 

Add to that a handful of historic bonds, including $275 million for parks and rec that paves the way for McFarland’s and mayoral candidate and former Dix Park Conservancy President and CEO Janet Cowell’s Dix vision, and, of course, the now-extended four-year terms and staggered two-year elections. 


When it comes to passion, “I’m really focused on sports as an economic driver,” says Baldwin. “There’s been a lot of talk about Major League Baseball coming here. We have one of the best women’s soccer teams in the world, and our men’s soccer team is also great. So how can we leverage that and ensure this opportunity comes together?” 

Baldwin reflects on her role in what is the city’s largest economic development project to date via the expansion of Lenovo Center (formerly PNC Arena) and the surrounding Entertainment and Sports District development. “I want to give the state—as well as Wake County—a lot of credit because they really stepped up and partnered to help make this happen,” says Baldwin. 

Often compared to Atlanta’s The Battery, which brings in a behemoth ~$3 billion a year, the sports and entertainment buildout is expected to be a boon unlike any other the Cap City has ever seen.


Taken all together, love it or loathe it, Raleigh’s roster with Baldwin at the helm points to progress. “There’s not one thing I could single out,” Baldwin says when asked what stands out during her time as mayor. “I think it’s everything—getting things done is what keeps me going. Part of what makes me notorious is that I do move things forward. I’m not somebody who’s going to sit around—making a difference is what keeps me charged.”

Turning a hundred or so pages, people will remember landing the Omni Raleigh Hotel and securing the Convention Center expansion and renovation. They will remember a government that finally approved BRT and the Civic Tower (unifying the civic entities on one campus) after 10 years of talk, thus serving to ignite a region, improve efficiency, and enable better communication and collaboration. 

And in what was easily the most contentious council vote in modern history, we could write a master’s thesis on the differentiator initiating, retaining and relocating  Red Hat Amphitheater has been—and thankfully will continue to be—for Downtown, as well as for the city as a whole, both in terms of economic impact and urban appeal for residents and visitors alike.


But people will also remember a pandemic, civil unrest, mask mandates, economic upheaval, her push to disband CACs, and the horrific tragedies that occurred during her tenure: a mass shooting and the death of local 11-year-old Hailey Brooks as a result of a parade tragedy. Still a contentious topic regarding the city’s handling, the 2024 Veterans Day Parade has just been canceled, and the Brooks family is now suing the City of Raleigh.

Pointing more specifically to people’s direct dislike of Baldwin, they will also remember her fingerprints on the skyline. For every pro-development constituent, there are arguably more who have publicly condemned the mayor of having her hands in developers’ pockets—so much so that she stepped down from her day job at Barnhill Contracting Co. due to speculation.

“If we want to continue to be a desirable city, we have to be bold,” says Baldwin. “We’re not going to stop growth—and we can’t just sit back. We have to have a vision for where we’re going. And whoever the next mayor is needs to be able to articulate that vision and get people behind it so we can move forward.”

Beyond her growth mindset, Baldwin’s favor fell drastically in response to the ongoing mask mandate and her handling of the upheaval that all but deemed Downtown unrecognizable after businesses were set aflame and ransacked—and the curfew that could have helped prevent it. While it was then-Raleigh Police Chief Cassandra Deck-Brown who was obliterated for her now infamous quote saying she “would not put officers in harm’s way to protect property and insurance,” many DTR business owners and residents hold Baldwin just as accountable for not stepping in sooner to instill a curfew. 

“Bless her little heart. I know she wanted that job [of mayor] for a long time, but she flunked the very first test,” said Clyde Cooper’s BBQ owner Debbie Holt in the aftermath—one of many DTR business owners who didn’t feel protected by the decisions Baldwin made. 

“What you learn is there’s always going to be people who are unhappy with the decisions you make,” says Baldwin. “As I’ve said publicly when asked if I regret [not calling a curfew]—absolutely. But I learned a really valuable lesson from that. My gut was telling me to call for a curfew. The bottom line is we didn’t know paid protesters from out of state were coming here. … I was told at the time, if you call for a curfew, we won’t be able to enforce it. And I regret it. But the lesson I learned from it was to always trust your gut. Don’t let that happen again.”

But, as they say, first impressions are everything. For many, the trust lost to that failed first test couldn’t be reconciled. Never mind the devastating scene is one DTR is still recouping from economically and socially to ameliorate public perception and bring Downtown back.


Now, as Raleigh again sits at a crossroads between NIMBYs and YIMBYs; yesterday and tomorrow; growth and conformity; status quo and progress—between then, now and what’s next—a new leader looks to take the helm. 

When asked what—or who—needs to be next for Raleigh, Baldwin’s answer is simple. “Janet Cowell is the only candidate with experience—both on the state and local level,” she says, nodding to the vision Cowell has shown in her role at Dix Park, and as a former Raleigh city councilor, state treasurer and state senator. “Other people running have good intentions, but they lack the experience. I firmly believe a city of almost 500,000 people needs an experienced leader who has vision.” 

Cowell, she explains, understands we need housing affordability and choice, that transit is crucial to our future, and that parks and recreation are critical to our physical and mental health. “She understands how our state government works and will seek out partnerships that move our city forward—she is the clear choice to be our next mayor of Raleigh,” maintains Baldwin.

Reflecting on her own experience as mayor, she adds: “When I was elected, COVID hit, followed by social unrest. If I had needed to have a learning curve—if I didn’t know the city or budget or staff—combined with a learning curve of holding office, it would have been a disaster. People say to me, you picked a great time to be mayor—and actually I did because that’s where I was supposed to be. I was the person with experience, and if it had been any other way, it could’ve been a disaster.”


It all stacks up to what you could easily call a self-fulfilling prophecy that germinated from that playful, snarky pre-mayoral nickname. When asked if she still embraces “The Notorious MAB,” she talks openly about how women in leadership are perceived—and attacked—across the country, something their male counterparts openly admit they don’t face. 

“While I might be notorious, if I were a man, it might be said, ‘Oh, he’s a great leader,’” she postulates. “Misogyny is alive and well in our country, and women are treated very differently than men,” she adds, nodding to infinite messages she’s received calling her every derogatory name you can fathom—and some you can’t.

“So what I would say about ‘notorious’? Hell, yeah, I embrace it,” she admits. “I’m going to own it and go with it. But that also has a lot to do with being a leader. People were ready for change—we want more housing; we want more density. They were tired of the NIMBY and controlled. … The fact is our city is going to change.”

“It is changing. I had an agenda. There were things I wanted to get done. And we’ve done it.”

When asked how she feels about not running again, in a word, “conflicted.” She says getting to this decision was extremely difficult. “After my breast cancer and everything I went through, I was more notorious than ever. It brought out all the strength. And I was like, I’m doing this again.” Then, her husband, Jim, had a heart attack, and she started to reflect on spending time with her family and granddaughter. 

And as for what’s next for “The Notorious MAB”—likely something a little less notorious: time to be a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and time to travel, all while fostering her careerlong commitment to affordable housing via her role at Cooper Charitable Foundation.

“I just came to the conclusion that, at this point, some other things are more important,” Baldwin emphasizes.

And starting my new job at Cooper Charitable Foundation has really helped solidify my decision because I recognize I could still work in an area that’s important to me and make a difference. My heart will still be filled.” 

So, as her chapter as mayor comes to an end, one thing is for certain—Raleigh will definitely never forget her. 

Best Bartenders Share Fave Bars

Best Bartenders Share Fave Bars

RM’s Best Bartender noms share where they like to belly up when they aren’t shaking it up at their home bar—and what you might find them ordering.

The Blind Barbour’s
Brian Small


SIPPING AT:
SideBar

Gussie’s
Kaylah Thomas


SIPPING AT:
Aunty Betty’s


The Cellar @ Wolfe & Porter’s
Jacob Gallant


SIPPING AT:
Revival 1869, Clayton


Dram & Draught’s
Duke Campbell


SIPPING AT:
Aunty Betty’s

Watts & Ward’s
Tyler Etheridge


SIPPING AT:
Landmark



Killjoy’s
Brianna Beatty

SIPPING AT:
Circa 1888


Aunty Betty’s
Rey Kukela


SIPPING AT:
Wolfe & Porter




Clockwork’s
Kellie Corcoran

SIPPING AT:
William & Company




William & Company’s
Jefferson Cañaveral


SIPPING AT:
The Longleaf Lounge or Natural Science





Flask Cocktail Bar’s
Bryan Nuñez

SIPPING AT:
Watts & Ward



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