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No one to go to a concert with? Go anyway.
Summer concert season is well underway, especially here in Raleigh—where an extraordinary lineup of artists have already rolled through town. Think Tyler, the Creator, The Head and the Heart and The Black Keys, with plenty more big names slated to play it up across Oak City venues. In short, the best songs of summer are begging you to come dance and drink along.
Love an incoming artist, but have no one to tag along with? Buy the ticket anyway. As someone who refuses to sit out a concert just because friends can’t come, I’ve gone to numerous live shows alone and found—especially with slower genres—it’s actually preferable over bringing a slew of pals.
And despite not having your normal armor of a group or date, riding solo isn’t awkward or scary.
Spoiler: Not a soul will care if you are there alone. Everyone is looking at the stage, not at you. To boot, musicians love that their music means enough to brave their set alone.
To wit, “solo dating” or embarking on experiences usually meant for two or more, is trending—and concerts are no exception to the long laundry list of things usually reserved for pairs and groups. Solitude and fun, found. Here, find our best tips for heading to a live show alone.
Wear What?
Wear an outfit you feel confident and comfortable in. Usually, I opt for something low maintenance—it will help kill the awkward jitters. Plus, it’s better for dancing around. As usual, protect the dogs with sneakers or boots, especially if it’s a standing-only venue.
Getting There
Plan transportation ahead of time, and keep that phone charged in case an Uber is needed after the show.
Sight-Seeing
The best part about riding solo? A good spot is easy to come by. If you want the barricade, more power to you—but if not, find a place where you can blend in with the crowd, but still have a good view.
Bottoms Up
Grab a drink. It doesn’t have to be an adult bevvy, but having something to hold and sip on will preoccupy your hands and help disperse any awkward vibes.
Friends Along the Way
A concert is the perfect place to make friends, if you feel so inclined. Everyone there already has at least two things in common: love for live music and love for the artist. Strike up a convo with those around you—but if you’re getting the hang of solitude, no pressure.
Let Loose
As aforementioned, everyone else is watching the music, not you. So chill out, dance around, cry, mosh, sing along—the world is your oyster. Remember the solo concert MO: No one cares you’re by your lonesome. And in a venue full of concert-goers who love music just as much, are you really alone?
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